Friday, August 20, 2010

I'm So Sometimey...My Twins are Done Transitioning

I'm Sometimey as you are fully aware by now. It was a long hot summer. My husband killed our grass with weed killer. My youngest daughter is 7 and her B-day party is tomorrow. She is having a Princess Tiana theme this year. I figure I'd better get it in before she enters the tween zone that the majority of her friends have already reached ewwww. My baby is growing up to fast.

This is what her cake is going to look like:



My last Princess Party, sigh.

My twins are done with their transition. They have all natural shoulder length hair and are militantly anti-perm. If they let me, I'll post some pics of them. They are wearing braid-outs. It took us two years (ages 10-12) to reach shoulder length(unstretched). We do a simple method of washing and detangling it (in sections, gobs of cheap conditioner, wide tooth comb and denman brush) every two weeks (that's all I can do sorry Kimmaytube lol). I put their hair in about 20 braids (well moisturized and sealed with oil, let that air dry over night. Take it down the next day a voila, gorgeous. To keep it up over the next two weeks I re-braid it at night into 8 to 10 braids (adding moisture if needed). I do not comb it or brush it for these rebraids, I just finger detangle, moisturize if needed and braid. I take it down in the morning and BAM, gorgeous. It gets more defined with each rebraid. I have to clip their ends this weekend. I clipped V's last week.

I discovered a new blog!!! This mom is not sometimey like myself. She is awesome and so are the styles she does on her daughter's hair.

Braids, Beads, and Beyond.
Enjoy!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

I had a lot on my mind besides hair...

but I didn't really feel like writing about it all plus my computer went to crap but here I'm is. I can't wait to get a Mac. Windows is pure garbage.

Let's see. My hair is a crazy mess right now because I've been lazy. I'm under a wrap right now and it's not cute. It's not a look. I'm going to try to do it this week because my hubby really misses it and I miss him it it. I'm going to have the mother of detangles on my hands. It will be an epic undertaking because my hair has grown and grown during these months of neglect.

The one issue I have with neglecting natural hair is that the shed hair can be immense by the time you do it over. Getting it all out can be vicious.

I've going to have to do some trickery in order to post pics. My computer still isn't all the way in order. I'll figure it out.

I see some kiddies in your avatars so I guess that means I cain't cuss no mo. Dang. Read my posts first before you let your child read because I can't help myself sometimes and this is primarily a blog for adults, though I really love how committed the mother's that I have talked to are to keeping their children natural and proud. I know inspiration is necessary.

Love

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Hott!!!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

How To Achieve Loc Growth on Loose Hair

Locs achieve their length because low-no manipulation, leads to no breakage, which leads to length retention. With this understanding, I adopted a very low manipulation regimen for our hair. This is the only thing that I am consistent with so I contribute our growth success to closely mimicing a loc regimen, meaning I leave it alone for extended lengths of time allowing our hair to grow. When I do refresh our hair, I do everything I can to minimize hair loss and breakage so that we can retain the growth we achieved during the extended time our hair has been left alone.

I've personally found box braids to be the best style for this kind of regimen. Having extremely coily hair, I found that I could not leave twists in our hair for really extended lengths of time because our hair would loc and we would lose hair in the detangle. Box braids de-coil our hair, stretching it smooth so that we don't lose hair that isn't shed hair in the detangle. I still do twist and twist-outs from time to time. I just can't let them stay in past two weeks.

This may surprise you but I never wear my box braids out, yet my hair is in box braids everyday. I will put 20 or more braids in my moisturized hair during the weekend. This gives me a defined braid-out that I can keep going for up to a month. The way I do this is I take those braids down the next day and braid them in larger chunks (10 braids) adding more moisture to my hair if needed. I don't comb, brush or part, I just grab large sections, add more moisture if needed and braid. I put on a satin bonnet and go to sleep. Monday morning, I take the braids down, finger through, shake and go. I repeat the process at night, never combing or brushing. Sometimes I will style my hair in an updo. There are many styles that I do none involve combing or brushing.

My scalp loves Aloe Vera and stays exceptionally clean and dandruff free when I spray my braids and scalp with Aloe Vera Juice. It must be the healing effect that aloe has on skin. I have Dermatitis brought on by the extremely acidic nature of chemical relaxers and Aloe has allowed me to heal my scalp and maintain the health of my scalp while keeping my box-braid regimen going for up to a month.

Hair does attract dirt so I clean my braids with a wet cloth during this phase if necessary and sometimes do very diluted ACV rinses while my braids are in (ACV can be very irritating if it's not diluted enough). ACV is also great for maintaining a clean, healthy scalp. Other natural ingredients great for cleansing the scalp are baking soda dissolved in water and witch hazel.

The key to this regimen is keeping the scalp healthy and the hair in a moisturized and stretched state so that when it is time to wash and detangle, it isn't traumatic to the hair. We want to maximize growth and minimize breakage.

I never wash all of my hair loose. I take one braid down, co-wash, finger detangle also using a wide to comb to help remove shed hair if necessary, rebraid and move on to the next.

As for my youngest seen on this blog, I simply leave her box braids up as long as possible using the same cleaning and washing techniques.

I am no product junky and am not loyal to anything. I just like anything that helps with moisture. The only thing I use on a consistent basis is Aloe juice and olive oil. I like my hair moisturizers thick. I also like shea butter because it's heavy and our naps like heavy products because our hair is naturally dry and sucks product in. Heavy products also help to smooth out our coils so that our hair can maintain it's stretch. I use cheap conditioner for co-washing and detangling. When I make my own, I use canned coconut milk, oil (usually olive), honey and sometimes an egg yolk when I think we need a protein treatment.

That's pretty much it. I hope you are finding success in cultivating your beautiful, glorious, natural hair.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Pray what ever prayer...

...this photo inspires you to pray.



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Angels Over Haiti

My mind is hurting and my heart is broken

I don't how much more you can endure

I pray hope is in abundance

I pray miracles pour down from the sky

God send an army of angels

made of the many that have gone from you

who now plead your case in heaven

so that a new dawn will shine upon you

it will surely come

may the tears of mourning cried

baptize the ground under your feet

so that every step you take

will forever be

on holy ground

on sacred ground

on hallowed ground

on blessed ground


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Monday, January 11, 2010

Growth

4th birthday


2 months after 5th birthday


6th birthday